Do you ever feel like no matter what you do, it's the wrong thing to have done? If you make someone feel invisible and don't realize it, then you try to make amends, only to see that you may have in fact made everything worse... Sometimes in life the right thing is the wrong choice. Sometimes you get lost in trying to make someone else feel validated or visible.. When in the end you end up in worse shape than you were in when you were oblivious to the facts around you.. I guess what I'm saying is, don't forget who you are as an individual when trying to please others..